A lot has been written about break ups and moving on in life. We come across people , some make a special place in our lives while some others simply touch our lives and vanish , sometimes without our notice too. This happens all the time. It need not be a bestie or a boyfriend/girlfriend only. It can be a faithful assistant,wellwisher,staff, anybody who has been close to your heart. The first reaction is pain followed by anger, sadness,questions, and then it is followed by a period of introspection .
The right way to end your suffering is to first accept that it is over. Yes, you did build memories together, hang on to the good ones and learn from the bad ones. What happens is that, when you hold a grudge against someone, you are not operating under acceptance, rather from revenge.
When you accept the situation and come to terms with it you make peace with the person mentally and at the same time are in a position to move on fully. Unless and until you make peace , you are bound to this person or incident and this will make you revisit this period of your life over and over again which will not let you move on. Moving on is not about finding another person, it is more about getting back to normalcy and going about your life with renewed enthusiasm. Yes, the vacant place may be filled up by a more suitable person when the time is right. Till, then bless your past, live your present and welcome your future !
As you go your way
And i go mine
May the sun always shine
On what is no longer mine.
For it is when you decide to wish good to your past , that you have trully moved on! After all you live just once, live it well!